The notion of "potential" can be dangerously numbing. Too often, we think of people--let's say kids-- as already possessing a certain quantity of ability and capability. As life plays out, an individual either achieves her potential or he doesn't. It is a crime to think this way, because we limit everything with our assumptions.

They are prepping the construction site of the new Meeting House Theatre by removing old asbestos-covered steam pipes. The building we're starting to construct is already drawn on paper, so its potential is pretty set. Human beings, however, create their own ability constantly, so depending on environment, predisposition, and will, a person can do anything.

Take, for example, Jason Jenkins. Jason, whose parents were in the diplomatic corps stationed in Mozambique, first saw Proctor when he arrived for registration. He was timid, shy, and vulnerable. People worried about Jason. What was his potential for success here? This kid, however, went on to be a leader. He found a niche in the Proctor Academy Fire Department, and like so many PAFD kids in the past, he turned that into an opportunity for personal growth.

This year, Jason was Dorm Leader for Carr House...a role we could not have imagined four years ago. Instead of being tough on younger more vulnerable kids in the dorm, he established an atmosphere of respect between peers, and ran the most successful Carr House I can remember.